23 August 2006

Titoki Syndrome....

Actions speak louder than words
If so, I have been screaming for the longest time. Yet, the world remains deaf to my urgings. The deaf may not hear, so I am faced with the prospect of ‘screaming’ for quite a while yet.

Travelling the world, only to find myself where I started; running furiously just to stay in the same place
Both are equally true for me. I feel stuck in the same place and time that I have been in for years, having expended time and effort to get someplace else.

I'm stuck. In a way, I sort of have titoki syndrome.

If you happen to find her a cure, could you please pass some this way?

Pretty please?

21 Comments:

At 5:32 am, Blogger Simple American said...

I can send you a hug. Won't cure anything, but I'll feel better. Hope you do too. :)

But on the philosophical side, consider walking backwards when forward does not get you to your destination. When you do not believe you are heard, seek a greater silence. Perhaps a voice can be found within its depths.

I remember when I gave up and I was good with giving up and prepared to remain in a state of giving up. Good things came my way.

Being despondent does not help. Shouting does not help. Thoughts of pain will not help.

Free yourself. Let go. Just don't worry. When things do not matter they will come to you.

Of course with all things in life that could be a blessing or a curse.

So I just leave you with a hug.

(You're up awfully late for a week day, Plinksan)

 
At 8:31 am, Anonymous may said...

I sometimes have that syndrome too. some days are good, some days are bad. what comforts me is when night falls, I know tomorrow is a different day, and it could be one that un-stucks you... :)

hugs

 
At 9:44 am, Blogger King's wife said...

We all get stuck sometime, somehow, somewhere along the way....
But I'm sure things will work themselves out.

 
At 12:48 pm, Blogger L B said...

Being stuck is sometimes a blessing in disguise.. *pulls the plink from the little hole* Ok, sometimes it's a bad thing too.. *that little hole is getting bigger*..

 
At 12:53 pm, Anonymous zeroimpact said...

Some good... some bad...
I give a hug
To make you smile...
Think happy thoughts
And may your times be better :)

 
At 12:59 pm, Blogger plink said...

SA: *hugsback* Part of the problem with being stuckis, of course, everything coms to me. Good things, bad things... everything! Living one day at a time is a great piece of advice. I'll just have to learn to stop worrying.
(I sometimes wake and can't sleep for a while)

may: *hugsback* Waiting for tomorrow and working towards it is keeping me (relatively) sane right now.

KW: *hugs/fingerscrossed* Things will work out. It's just that so many things are going on at the moment that it's all a bit scary.

LB: Thank you! Trouble with the little hole is that so mnay people have fallen into it recently. That's why it's getting bigger.

OK, back to work....

 
At 1:01 pm, Blogger plink said...

ZI: OMG! *hugzback* Better times are on the way, but why does it have to take so long? ;)

 
At 1:13 pm, Blogger Chen said...

sometimes i feel like that too...

and.. I get stuck in some "place" too in the past..
but after much struggling and much reconsideration,
I decided to do some changes and make a move..
and I'm glad I did that.. :)
No regrets.

 
At 1:22 pm, Blogger angel said...

Errrmmm... a probable cure... maybe can learn to love the "hole"? If the hole dun love u bek... mmmm... find another hole?

Maybe wa eh tolong lu? ;)

 
At 2:08 pm, Blogger fantasyflier said...

come to canada for the cure....here have...

 
At 2:46 pm, Blogger titoki said...

Woohoo~ Someone got my disease liao!!! LOL. Hahaha. Come hugs. Life goes on. We'll find a greener pasture together-gether soon, okay? Cheer up. :)

 
At 3:19 pm, Blogger L B said...

*falls in too*

 
At 5:25 pm, Anonymous zeroimpact said...

Keep counting of coz long la
Come come... hugs longer
then time go very the fast one
Heh heh heh
:)
And remember la...
Smile...

 
At 10:19 pm, Anonymous kat said...

You know..I wanted to write something witty, something clever, something profound, something insightful...but nada...zilch...I'm sorry...

I suppose one needs to be in a similar mood to be able to relate. I am very disillusioned with some things now, and it used to get me down, but I am working at doing something about it, rather than sit back and get beaten by it. But who knows, I may find myself travelling the world, only to find myself back where I started..at least, I can say I've tried to do something about it.

~ No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path... - Siddharta

 
At 11:04 pm, Blogger plink said...

chen: Nicely done! Psst... I'm preparing to move on also, but sometimes, it feels like I'm getting nowhere....

angel: o.O You're helping much already. But please be careful: I had to read that comment twice. First time around, I thought have to change Delima Kasih to 18SX rating already.... LOL!

FF: Yes, please! OK, who want to form rombongan go Canada look for UnkerFF?

titoki: *hugback* I'm feeling better now, but had a serious case of stuck-problem. Things are working out, but I am still nervous....

LB: OII! Blogger in the hole! Blogger in the hole!

*rings PDRM/Bomba/AngkatanTenteraMalaysia*

ZI: *hugzback* I smiling now! :)

kat: You are exactly right. Luckily for me, I have been working on a way out. I think it will work. I know it will work. Good luck to you and to everyone. :)

 
At 11:39 pm, Blogger Simple American said...

Worry really hits a lot of woman. The missus does this too. All I can do is not worry for her. Therefore I let her do all of the family worrying. Me I just do.

Maybe that is what you need. To try and do. Can't be stuck if you are doing. But you can be stuck if you don't. Just seems the natural progression.

 
At 1:52 am, Anonymous zeroimpact said...

Yay...
And the world smile with you...
Mission accomplished
:)

 
At 3:46 am, Blogger angel said...

Huh??? 18SX??
*goes read own comment again*
Tsk tsk tsk!!! Lu siaou uai lehhh! Tapi hor... wa boh beng pik lu siaou ha mik pian ka 18sx khi...

*drops some anti-nervousness feathers*

Sharing this with plinku abt worrying:
There are only two things in life a lot of people worry about; things you can change, and things you can't change. For things you can change, why worry? Just go change it. For things you can't change, well, why worry again? You can't change them, so, let it be.

 
At 9:56 am, Anonymous kyels said...

Life goes on no matter what. We all have our frequent ups and downs. Sometimes we would not want those to happen to us but life is unpredictable.

Take one step at a time and try to keep your chin up. There's always a rainbow after the rain.

(:

*hugs*

 
At 3:48 pm, Blogger plink said...

O.O SA is Yoda! 'Do, or do not. There is no try....

ZI: =D

angel: Well, umm.... I'm thinking the same reasons why we don't mention the words 'love' and 'h***' at the same time in public....

The things I can change, I am changing. The things I can't change are frustrating. I worry, then stop worrying, then start worrying about them again. Isn't that worrying?

Kyels: Well said. This is all that we can do and all things (good and bad) eventually come to an end.

 
At 11:47 pm, Blogger Simple American said...

For a little green guy Yoda has it going on.

 

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